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Post by Jakey on Tue Nov 13, 2012 9:02 am

Just... feel like crying/screaming/letting it all go...
I need to meditate right now, but haven't been able to find a good enough spot in our bedroom...
This guy, a new boyfriend of one of my friends, was totally unable to 'get' me, my name, and how I existed etc. which is, you know, okay I'm a little let down - I can't help feeling like that, but no biggie, I know it can be difficult for others to understand.
But then he says a comment that really got to me when my friends were explaining about one girl at Uni 'R' who has recently announced how she felt about me... the guy, who knows 'R' and also dated her for a while, then says really defensively "She's not a lesbian."
No, no she is not. But I am a dude! Whether you see that or not is irrelevant, and she can see past the body to my gender on the inside... what does it matter?
So then he replies "Yeah but, you don't have a penis. How pointless would a relationship be with you!"
Honestly I got so angry and upset, especially since my inner-world relationship has just fallen through and all my friends out here seem to be getting together... yeah dude, don't worry about my feelings or anything, I'll be okay.
Adding insult to injury, he then lets me leave by saying "bye Jess..."

I'm just so annoyed and frustrated...

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Post by piecesofme.rebecca on Tue Nov 13, 2012 10:35 am

what a dick! Sorry that happened Jake. xxx

You're awesome and any girl would be lucky to have a relationship with you. I know it's not in the cards (outerworld wise) for legit reasons but seriously if those boundaries were not in place you'd be just as great a catch out here as in your inner world man. Some people have very limited minds. Forget em!



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Post by ShatteredImage on Tue Nov 13, 2012 1:12 pm

That really makes me so mad! We used to live with someone who would call me by Mekos name all the time and act like he didn't know I was here when I know he did. It is one thing to not understand something and another thing to choose not to understand, he was a complete meanie head and there is absolutely no excuse for it.

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Post by seb on Wed Nov 14, 2012 12:26 am

WHAT A ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dude, seriously, F him. ive had so many f-ing convos just like that with darren since we told him, n i feel for ya. barely a day goes by that we see him n he dont feel the need to point out that i dont actually have any 'kit'. or that whatever i 'think' i am, apparantly im a woman.

a lotta people are just assholes. your awesome, anyone that knows you, knows your awesome. this guy is a douchebag. sorry he left ya feeling crummy mate. he aint worth ya time.


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Post by The Orchestra on Wed Nov 14, 2012 1:21 am

:/ that's absolutely horrible. i'm so sorry someone acted like that towards you..

we've had similar things happen recently in college with some people so i'm sure some people inside know how you're feeling. it's not nice and it isnt acceptable. it doesnt matter how much someone 'gets it' or not, they should at least make an effort to understand or at the very least call you by your name whether they want to accept it or not.

i hope that at some point he'll realise how hurtful his words have been and make more of an effort to understand.


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Post by olo'ronsem on Wed Nov 14, 2012 4:54 pm

omg, that angers me too....

im so sorry that happened to u jake

i know hes ur friends bf, but i wud just give him the cold shoulder...if he isnt gonna see u for u, then u shudnt even see him!

i dunno...that made no sense, but fuck that guy!

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Post by The Glass Menagerie on Fri Nov 16, 2012 1:30 am

that's absolutely horrible that anyone would react that way. :/ i'm sorry. eurgh. you are not Jess, not at all, he sounds like a douche. >< i would try to avoid him, too...

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